Always a trap.
However, if boys have then they are glorified. If they haven’t, then they are harassed and their “masculinity” is questioned.
One’s loss of virginity should not be shamed or glorified. It’s just a sexual debut. The end.
This reminds me of one of my bestfriends. She prefers a guy with experience than a guy who hasn’t done stuff… WHY IS IT OKAY FOR A MAN AND NOT A WOMAN?
Double Standards. The struggle is real. (favorite movie ever XD)